T.F.R.
Today, the weather is bad. My best friend's house had no power. Instead of coming to my house We stayed there. With no power. (if my mom heard this she would not be happy.) Why do you think that is? Obviously, we do not like being at my house.
Well, the storm was about to come. My mom asked for me to come home, the movie I was watching was almost over. I asked for twenty-five more minutes. She told me she was afraid because my ride had to get back home,too. I knew she was out and couldn't check the reports so I simply asked if we could with his mom. Everything seem to e fine, and I was on the way home. Turns out there is a terrible storm, and 'm glad I know my friend and I are safe. For one reason or another my mom has yelled at me at least 6 times in 5 minutes. I am not exagerating.
Apperently asking my dad what kind of dessert he wants is a stupid question.
Running downstairs when she called my name, and forgetting to turn the bathroom light off is a deadly sin.
Being home when she asked means shit.
Answering my mom's phone (when she tells me too), asking who wants to talk to my brother (who wasn't home yet, and my parents were both mad), getting no response, and telling him they didn't want to talk to him, is wrong too.
Well, get this. Maybe we (my brother and I) don't want to come home because of . . . you.
:::EDIT:::
I'm starting to realize . . . If I truly want help. I'm going to need a post telling about my past-life.
The more I evaluate it . . .I come to the conclusion I am the typical troubled American teenage girl.
So my next post will be on my life biography. I'll leave you to decide.
Until next time,
t.f.r
6 comments:
So far, is confessing to no one helping you deal with any of the stuff your dealing with? I think what your doing is creative, I'm just wondering if its helping you with anything.
I have to say, I think I know exactly where you're coming from. I started an anonymous blog...a few hours ago actually, and while I doubt anyone listens, it feels so worth it. It makes you feel so worth it.
If you want to talk more, I'm open to discussion. Furthermore, I'm open to listening. Leave me a comment to get in touch.
P.S. I know what it's like to feel just that alone. Please don't doubt me.
I am a Mom, for cats and kids.
I do not know if it will help you, but maybe if I listen to you I might regognise some of the mistakes I made when my kids were your age and... maybe, just maybe I can give you better advice than I gave them 30 years back.
But I know this, to write about it is to talk about it and that always help to be able to look at your own life from a distance.
So I am here to listen.
You're right, you sound like the typical teenage girl. The typical teenage girl has unique problems that all fit into the same bubbles- parents, boys, school, friends. My best advice on the parents aspect- ignore them. If they're scolding you about something, or even screaming in your face, just smile to yourself and go along with whatever they say, even though you know they're wrong. Parents are wrong a lot, but regardless of how/how often you argue- they will never see things your way. So, just nod and say 'you're right.' Because then- you're beating them at their own game. Do what you want and try to avoid conflict by not getting caught. When there is conflict, just be strong and go with it.
Here is a slight word of advise....
I believe that the advise offered by M to just ignore your parents is wrong - rather try to understand where they come from too, and that their advise may be different from what people of your age believe, but....that it is given with good intentions most of the time. See your parents as human beings that is imperfect too, but not as only a meal ticket or a clothing store and an accommodation provider, try and find something you can respect in them, that will be easier on you both.
Enough said. Have a nice day.
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